Let’s be honest — lube is the unsung hero of great sex. Whether you’re solo, partnered, or somewhere in between, the right lubricant can level up comfort, sensation, and overall enjoyment. But with so many options, where do you even start?
Welcome to Lube 101 — your no-nonsense guide to choosing the best lube for you (and your toys).
Why Lube Matters
Using lube isn’t about "needing" it — it’s about wanting more.
It reduces friction, boosts sensation, protects delicate areas, and enhances toy use. Think of it as the smooth-talking wingman in your pleasure toolkit.
Water-Based Lubes
Best for: Toys, condoms, quick clean-up
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Light, natural feel
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Safe for all sex toys
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Easy to wash off with water
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Great for people with sensitivities
✅ Explore our water-based lubes →
When to use it:
Everyday play, especially with vibrators or during foreplay. Also great for beginners who want a lube that plays well with everything.
Silicone-Based Lubes
Best for: Long-lasting glide, shower play, body massages
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Ultra-slick, doesn’t dry out
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Perfect for water play
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NOT compatible with silicone toys
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A little goes a long way
✅ Shop body-safe silicone lubes →
When to use it:
Longer sessions, anal play, or when you want that “forever slick” feeling. Just keep it away from your silicone toys.
Oil-Based Lubes
Best for: External pleasure, massages, solo play
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Natural feel, sometimes edible
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Not safe with latex condoms
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Can stain sheets or clothes
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Not toy-safe unless labeled
When to use it:
For body massages, non-penetrative play, or that coconut oil fantasy moment. Use with care and check labels!
Quick Lube Tips
✔️ Use water-based with toys for safe, simple fun
✔️ Go silicone-based for marathon sessions or slippery shower time
✔️ Try oil-based for massages or external touch
❌ Avoid silicone lube with silicone toys unless labeled safe
❌ Always patch test if you’re prone to sensitivity