Written for lesbians by a lesbian.
Finding the right sex toy as a lesbian isn’t always as easy as it should be. So many shops still cater to outdated, hetero ideas of what sex toys “should” look like. The good news? That’s changing - fast.
At Oh Yes Club, we believe pleasure should be inclusive, body-safe, and made for you. Whether you're looking for your first toy or want to level up your collection, here’s everything you need to know about choosing the best lesbian sex toys.
What Makes a Great Lesbian Sex Toy?
Let’s be real: lesbian sex isn't just “two women using a toy.” It's intimate, dynamic, and all about connection - with yourself or a partner.
The best sex toys for lesbian and queer women are:
✅ Body-safe (medical-grade silicone)
✅ Designed for vulva-to-vulva, strap-on, or clit stimulation
✅ Flexible and comfortable for different body types
✅ Easy to clean & discreet
Must-Have Lesbian Sex Toys to Explore
Strap-On Dildos & Harnesses
Perfect for penetration play with partners, strap-ons allow for endless positions and intimacy.
Double-Ended Dildos
Double dildos allow for shared penetration, hands-free connection, and synchronized pleasure.
Clit Suckers & Vibrators
External stimulation is a huge part of lesbian sex — and clit suction toys and vibrators are game-changers.
Remote-Control Toys
Perfect for long-distance couples or playful partner control — remote vibes keep things fun and surprising.
Gender-Affirming Toys
For anyone on a gender journey, packers, sleeves, and body-safe affirming toys can make intimacy feel even more connected and validating.
How to Choose Your First Lesbian Sex Toy
- Start with comfort first — soft silicone, easy straps, and adjustable harnesses.
- Look for trusted, queer-owned brands (like us!).
- Don’t be afraid to start small — your first toy doesn’t have to be intimidating.
- Prioritise toys designed by and for queer women.
Yes, It's All Discreet
At Oh Yes Club, we get it — your privacy matters. That’s why every order ships in plain packaging, with no branding or giveaways.
You’ll get your package quickly, quietly, and ready for action.
Your Pleasure. Your Rules.
Whether you're experimenting, exploring, or experienced — there’s no “right” way to do queer sex.
We believe in sex toys that meet you where you are, without shame, stigma, or outdated assumptions.
Explore Our Full Lesbian Collection Today
